Last week, I conducted an experiment to find out what Seattle men really wanted - this time we hear from the ladies. I picked a handful of random single ladies in the city to give me their thoughts on dating and what roadblocks they've come up against.Married Single Who Cares It S San Marino
Surprise, surprise - their answers were much more lengthy than the men's. So while it was harder to narrow down a basic consensus, I think the general themes are enough to gather an answer to the question, "What is it that women want?
Whether that means plan a date, approach a girl at the bar, or even muster the confidence for a nide or a hello. I asked the ladies the same exact questions as the men and while I shortened the responses a tad, this is what I found out: What are you looking for in a significant other?
Someone who has a lot going for themselves, a contributor or partner Need to value family and friends Humor Honesty This Ouy the most varied answer by far. While the men took great pause to think of answers, the women had their lists ready! For the most part, they weren't shallow, unreasonable, or financially related!
As far as ambition, it was more passion-focused. They want men that are driven and like what they do.
These answers had almost nothing to do with money - they desire qualities that you'd want to find in a good friend or that you'd hope to find in yourself. Where do you go to meet men? girp
Tinder Bars Networking events Mutual friends Most had Seatte, or are trying, online dating - but that does tend to take some of the old school chivalry out of the courting process, where Tinder messages and texting have taken the place of phone calls and flowers. Most girls just missed being wooed or feeling valued.
What have been your challenges dating in Seattle? Finding guys that make a plan or date Well-placed confidence Guys are too introverted or on tirl phone while out This response was also almost unanimous across the board.
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While the men said the women were unapproachable, the women just really want to Covelo milfs xxx approached. Granted, they'd like it done in a respectful way, but it sounds like the guys need to step it up a notch because more Out of Seattle want a nice girl than not, they'll get the date simply because nobody else is asking!
Off to the ladies, smile, be nice, and give guys a chance.
og And gentlemen, give the women a reason to give you that chance! Buy them a drink, open doors, and ask them to dinner and then pick a place and time! Hopefully now that we have a bit of insight into the minds of singles in Seattle, we'll start seeing more dates and less tinder swiping!
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OK guys, your turn to listen up!